Why Getting Blocked on Medium Isn't the End of the World

The Surprising Disappointment of Being Blocked

It happened again—this time, twice in one sitting. I was scrolling through the profiles of some writers from a humorous publication I enjoy on Medium, thinking that surely, if they appreciate humor, they'd enjoy my work as well. Maybe we'd even become friends on the platform.

As I clicked to follow one writer, the button wouldn't respond. Had they blocked me? I tried again, but still nothing. I shrugged it off—perhaps my writing didn't resonate with them. The block felt harsh, reminiscent of early 2000s Shaquille O'Neal's style. Ouch.

After reading more articles and following other writers whose humor I appreciated, it happened again. Really? Twice in just an hour? This was unusual.

At this point, I started to feel a little down. What gives? Two people couldn't stand my writing enough to block me? That stings.

It's tough not to internalize such rejection, especially when your work typically garners positive responses. When someone harshly criticizes your writing or decides to block you based on their dislike for it (or you), it can feel disheartening.

However, it’s important to remember that there are countless reasons someone might choose to sever ties with your content. Here’s why I try not to take it to heart when I find myself blocked.

Understanding My Opinions

I can be quite opinionated at times. I have no tolerance for ignorance and will call it out in my writing.

This is completely true—I own it. I’m passionate about the issues that matter to me. While I’m generally easygoing about most things, there are certain topics that ignite my passion, particularly when they involve racism, sexism, and homophobia. Such subjects often intersect with politics and religion, making me a target for those who support harmful ideologies.

I genuinely care for everyone, and I’m always excited to meet new people, except for those who harbor bigoted views. I will always stand against ignorance and challenge it publicly. If that bothers you enough to block me, I accept it without regret.

Embracing Strong Language

I have a fondness for the word "fuck" and use it frequently. When you free yourself from the constraints of guilt, swearing becomes trivial. There are far more pressing matters than worrying if I might offend someone with my language.

Writing is inherently personal. Our articles reflect our truth. I take pride in being my authentic self in my writing, believing that people find it more relatable when I don’t censor my words.

For some writers on Medium, my use of strong language is a deal-breaker. If the word "fuck" leads to a block, so be it. As Billy Joel famously put it, "I'd rather laugh with the sinners than cry with the saints."

The Element of Surprise in My Stories

I often throw in a twist in my narratives.

This is the one I truly struggle to comprehend. If I craft a story that veers off in an unexpected direction, it’s usually comedic. To me, the plot shift seems evident from the start—perhaps because I’m the one writing it!

I’ve had at least two people block me for crafting a humorous story that took an unexpected turn, leaving them offended. One individual even felt the need to chastise me for wasting her time.

Of course, I would never respond in kind on Medium, especially since she blocked me before I could even reply. Still, it was amusing.

Accepting That Not Everyone Will Like My Work

As a writer, it’s impossible to please everyone.

I’d much rather be your shot of tequila than a boring cup of tea. The best tales arise from wild nights rather than sipping leisurely. I’m here for the vast majority of readers who enjoy my work and find humor in it.

To those who feel the urge to block: You’re missing out.

Chapter 2: Video Insights on Blocking and Communication

Video Title: BLOCKED! Will She Ever Unblock Me?

This video explores the dynamics of online communication and the implications of being blocked, shedding light on the emotional impact it can have.