Chapter 1: The Journey of Job Applications

For over a year now, I’ve been on the job hunt. While I still hold onto hope, each rejection feels like a heavy blow. The ones for positions I truly desire hit even harder. Today was one of those days.

I applied for a copywriting role at an online language school, competing with approximately 600 other candidates. According to insights from recruiters, this number is typical for copywriting positions within tech companies.

To enhance my chances, I reached out to a first-degree connection on LinkedIn for an internal referral and contacted the recruiter listed on the job posting. A few days later, I received an invitation for an initial interview.

Section 1.1: Key Mistakes During the Interview

#### Subsection 1.1.1: Hesitation After the Introduction

After introducing myself, I felt my heart racing. My breathing became shallow, and I struggled to maintain a calm rhythm. The fear of hyperventilating during the interview loomed large. When I’m not breathing correctly, communicating effectively becomes a challenge.

#### Subsection 1.1.2: The Classic "Tell Us About Yourself"

Before I could finish my response, I admitted, “I tend to get nervous in interviews.” While honesty can be admirable, this admission didn’t convey confidence or control. Instead, it might have suggested a lack of assertiveness, prompting the recruiter to question my potential.

#### Subsection 1.1.3: Identifying Core Skills

When asked to name three of my strengths, I struggled to move beyond creativity, my primary asset. Although I excel in generating ideas, presenting myself in a compelling way is not my forte.

#### Subsection 1.1.4: Acknowledging Areas for Improvement

When asked about areas I could improve, I immediately thought of public speaking. I should have added that I recognize when I become anxious, feeling the tension and shallow breathing. Despite this, I prepare thoroughly and seek opportunities to push my boundaries, ensuring I can handle such situations effectively.

#### Subsection 1.1.5: Interrupting the Recruiter

I misphrased a question and, realizing my error, interrupted the recruiter. This was likely unwelcome and could have left a negative impression.

Section 1.2: Coping with Rejection

Rejection is disheartening, particularly when I didn’t even reach the second interview stage. Despite my experience and enthusiasm for the role, it’s clear that there’s a perfect copywriting opportunity out there waiting for me—one that aligns with my values, offers financial stability, and allows me to contribute positively to the world.

I sought feedback on my interview performance, and the search continues. Ultimately, job hunting is reminiscent of dating: when someone declines, there’s no point in trying to persuade them otherwise. It’s best to take the hit and move forward.

Chapter 2: Insights from Video Resources

Video Title: How to Know You Failed the Job Interview (Signs According to a Recruiter)

Description: This video explores common signs that indicate a candidate may not have succeeded in their job interview, offering insights from a recruiter's perspective.

Video Title: The TOP TWO Reasons You Were Rejected After Interviews!

Description: This video outlines the primary reasons candidates often face rejection after interviews, helping job seekers understand what may have gone wrong.