Chapter 1: The Illusion of the American Dream

It seems there is much that is amiss in our society.

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One day, I found myself questioning, “What exactly are we consuming in our food?” This curiosity was sparked after watching a video of a girl enjoying pasta in Italy, who remarked on how she didn't experience the usual bloating or discomfort. Numerous similar videos followed, showcasing travelers who indulged in rich foods without the typical adverse reactions.

I also came across a Netflix documentary titled Live to 100: Secrets of the Blue Zones, which trails Dan Buettner as he investigates why certain regions boast notably higher life expectancies. Their lifestyles—encompassing diet, work, and social interactions—differ greatly from those in America, and I must admit, the contrast was disheartening.

Witnessing such a wholesome, natural way of living—a lifestyle we are inherently suited for, yet many do not get to experience—was eye-opening. While I genuinely appreciate technological progress and the conveniences of modern life, I often feel that this advancement can lead to a sense of entrapment.

We are led to believe that diligence and patriotism will yield success. We strive for our ideal careers and happiness, only to realize that we are stretched thin, with meager resources to support our families.

Consider the stark statistics surrounding unemployment, divorce rates, domestic violence, addiction, and overall health. In many cases, maternity leave is unpaid, and paternity leave is nearly nonexistent. A comparison with other nations reveals just how different our circumstances could be.

In Scotland, access to feminine hygiene products is recognized as a fundamental right. Conversely, in America, one must insert coins into a machine for a single cardboard tampon. Baby changing tables may be found in women's restrooms, often neglected and lacking supplies, while most men's restrooms completely lack them.

Why is this the case?

The cost of living is exorbitant, our health is in decline, and we struggle to maintain the familial connections we desire. Our food and water sources can often feel like overpriced poison. We look down upon families living in inadequate housing while expecting paltry wages to be an acceptable exchange for basic human rights.

We offer public prayers for children who go to sleep hungry, yet we turn away in disgust when we see someone rummaging through trash for a meal.

In this era of unprecedented connectivity, we are more isolated than ever. Anxiety and depression plague us, while our children stare blankly at glowing screens, mirroring our own behavior.

We exist in a time where communication is easy, yet we often fail to engage with those around us—our neighbors, strangers at coffee shops, and even our own children.

I am truly thankful for the rights and freedoms we enjoy in the United States. However, there are moments when it feels as though some of the advertised freedoms are merely illusions.

“Why question your freedom when you aren’t physically restrained?”

This sentiment feels akin to dismissing the struggles of victims of psychological abuse simply because they haven’t endured physical harm.

I subscribe to the Socratic notion of the Social Contract, which posits that our choice to remain in a society binds us to its standards. If we are dissatisfied, we have the option to leave. However, it appears there is a loophole that makes it increasingly difficult to do so.

I may be youthful and perhaps naive in some aspects. If I am misrepresenting the truth, I welcome correction.

Please, enlighten me. I’d like to hear why my perspective might be misguided.

Chapter 2: The Global Perspective on the American Dream

In this chapter, we will examine perspectives from around the world regarding the American Dream and its implications.

The first video, How "The American Dream" Becomes "The American Nightmare," offers insights into the disillusionment many feel regarding the promise of prosperity and success in America.

The second video, Laura Smith | The American Dream Has Become a Global Nightmare - 2/8 | Oxford Union, discusses the broader implications of the American Dream's decline on a global scale.